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November 26, 2010

My Father Inspires Me by Ellie Heller

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My father inspires me. In his love for hobbies and expression of art outside of his work, he has dabbled at many things and, in the process, gained mastery over several. Carpentry, running a B&B, embroidery are a few of his skills. At seventy he decided he really wanted to do more visual art and took up print making. He’s worked with several different methods and has explained excitedly about each. Just hearing him detailing his process and expounding on his ideas you can feel the love he has for this new medium. He has found his niche, his way of expressing himself and he couldn’t be happier or more enthusiastic.

But it’s not his enthusiasm which inspires me. His entering a new world of art became exciting for everyone who knew him. Seeing some of his work win awards made everyone proud, him most of all. His taking up something new, mastering it and then having other recognize his brilliance certain could be why he inspires me, but it’s not.

No, what inspires me is his dedication and perseverance to continue doing his art while going through chemo and relocating at the same time.

Some days I can’t even get a word on paper, my time does not seem like it belongs to me. Yet my father, through the highs and lows of chemo, not only made and entered pieces for shows, he and my stepmother set their house in order and put it on the market, found a new home and moved.

I am both awed and inspired by this man. No matter what was going on he made time to do something he loved. And with his time possibly now counted by seasons, not years, his urging to make sure you find something you love and then make the time to do it resonates loudly.

I have many things to be thankful for this time of year, but having someone so close to me understand and support my need to do something which brings me joy counts beyond measure.

7 Comments »

  1. Your father sounds like an extremely, gifted and talented man, Ellie. Some people seems to have more “will” more “drive” than others and he certainly seems to be one of them. I can see why he inspires you. I hope he will be with you for many more seasons.

    Comment by Debbie Vaughan — November 26, 2010 @ 05:48 | Reply

  2. You are truly blessed to have someone like that in your life.

    Comment by Amber Green — November 26, 2010 @ 08:10 | Reply

  3. You reminded me of how much I miss my father. Cherish him, Ellie.

    Comment by Judith — November 26, 2010 @ 08:23 | Reply

  4. Awesome, Ellie – your father and you.

    Comment by KevaD — November 26, 2010 @ 09:18 | Reply

  5. I don’t even have words for this post. Your dad is a wonderful and blessed man to have you and you are more than blessed to have him.

    Comment by Cornelle — November 27, 2010 @ 02:28 | Reply

  6. Thanks everyone. We were supposed to have visited with him this holiday, but it didn’t work out. Hopefully we’ll be getting together soon.

    Comment by Ellie Writes Too — November 29, 2010 @ 18:19 | Reply

  7. […] My father inspires me. In his love for hobbies and expression of art outside of his work, he has dabbled at many things and, in the process, gained mastery over several. Carpentry, running a B&B, embroidery are a few of his skills. At seventy he decided he really wanted to do more visual art and took up print making. He's worked with several different methods and has explained excitedly about each. Just hearing him detailing his process and e … Read More […]

    Pingback by My Father Inspires Me by Ellie Heller (via Some Write It Hot) « Ellie Writes 2 — November 29, 2010 @ 18:20 | Reply


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